"Dayum, gurl, you got a bangin' bootay!" This was hollered ...
Why is it that society has taught us that if ...
Forgiveness is a concept that many believe they understand, but ...
(If you haven’t read the original post, you can find it here: LINK) A year ago I wrote a blog dispelling a couple of popular myths about sex, and I’d like cover some more of them. Myth #3: A woman who has had a lot of sex will have a loose, saggy or stretched out [ Read More ]
“Dayum, gurl, you got a bangin’ bootay!” This was hollered at my back one day while I was walking down the street. I often hear wolf-whistles and catcalls when I am out & about, less so when I am with friends but even then the occasional remark or whistle can be heard from time [ Read More ]
Why is it that society has taught us that if a guy has sex with (or even sometimes just goes on dates with) many women then he’s successful, more desirable, and a stud, but if a women does the same then she’s devalued, damaged and a slut? Sure, we’d like to believe that we’ve evolved [ Read More ]
Forgiveness is a concept that many believe they understand, but very few actually do. for·give [fer-giv] verb, -gave, -giv·en, -giv·ing. 1. to grant pardon for or remission of (an offense, debt, etc.);absolve. 2. to give up all claim on account of; remit (a debt, obligation,etc.). 3. to grant pardon to (a person). 4. to cease to feel resentment against: to forgive one’s enemies. 5. to cancel an indebtedness or liability of: to forgive the interest owed on a loan. What stands out in the definition here is not that it’s something you grant someone else, nor is it offering relief to someone else, but the ability to release yourself from the burden [ Read More ]
I.O.U Burden Commitment Contract Debt Duty Necessity Responsibility Requirement Obligation. I can’t stand obligation. It’s one of those things that truly makes me feel anxious and uncomfortable, and I do my best to avoid it if at all possible. Now, I was aiming to post this around the 2011 winter holiday season, but it applies [ Read More ]
I have heard too many women saying how sweet it is that their boyfriend gets jealous when she’s out with her guy friends. They believe that it’s cute how he really cares about them and wants to protect them. It’s definitely a common misconception that jealousy is a sign that someone really loves you, [ Read More ]
