“Dayum, gurl, you got a bangin’ bootay!” This was hollered at my back one day while I was walking down the street. I often hear wolf-whistles and catcalls when I am out & about, less so when I am with friends but even then the occasional remark or whistle can be heard from time [ Read More ]
Why is it that society has taught us that if a guy has sex with (or even sometimes just goes on dates with) many women then he’s successful, more desirable, and a stud, but if a women does the same then she’s devalued, damaged and a slut? Sure, we’d like to believe that we’ve evolved [ Read More ]
Forgiveness is a concept that many believe they understand, but very few actually do. for·give [fer-giv] verb, -gave, -giv·en, -giv·ing. 1. to grant pardon for or remission of (an offense, debt, etc.);absolve. 2. to give up all claim on account of; remit (a debt, obligation,etc.). 3. to grant pardon to (a person). 4. to cease to feel resentment against: to forgive one’s enemies. 5. to cancel an indebtedness or liability of: to forgive the interest owed on a loan. What stands out in the definition here is not that it’s something you grant someone else, nor is it offering relief to someone else, but the ability to release yourself from the burden [ Read More ]
I.O.U Burden Commitment Contract Debt Duty Necessity Responsibility Requirement Obligation. I can’t stand obligation. It’s one of those things that truly makes me feel anxious and uncomfortable, and I do my best to avoid it if at all possible. Now, I was aiming to post this around the 2011 winter holiday season, but it applies [ Read More ]
I was recently at a Pick-Up Artist summit in Los Angeles. I met up with some friends I haven’t seen in a while and made some new ones, and had a very interesting experience that I’d like to share with you now. I was at a private house party in Hollywood when I was approached by [ Read More ]
I’ve been asked many questions about the “seduction community,” as well as my involvement with The Worthy Playboy(tm) Institute. I’ve also been directed to MANY different web pages and blogs that all claim to offer the ultimate authority in dating & seduction techniques/skills/advice, etc., yet they all contradict with each other! It’s easy to see [ Read More ]
